We had a lovely day with my son, DIL, and two grandsons. I HAD SUGGESTED SINCE IT WAS GRANDPARENT'S DAY, THAT WE WOULD TREAT THEM ALL BY GOING OUT TO DINNER. In that way, we could spend a special day with them and be happy. After all,isn't that really what it is all about? We are blessed that we have grandchildren, that we have adult children who care about us, and that we can all be together. Standing on ceremonies only allows for bad feelings. Happy is happy! I'd rather have that! (BTW, when we got to their house, we got BIG hugs and my son surprised us with a beautiful dinner he cooked for us.)Put happy ideas together for a happy family.