krystyna-- i know how you feel! my mailbox is so starved i'm not sure it could hold a postcard! i hate that people do not write thank you's anymore. remember how nice it was to get a hand written note from someone? i made my kids say thank you, but i didn't realize just how short sighted i was! i've given my kids some expensive and thoughtful gifts and haven't rec'd thank you's, except from my over achieving dd. someday she'll inherit everything and the boys will wonder why!