just a reminder to those who are losing with their husband, or any other guy, men lose faster than women --by a lot! so don't get discouraged that he's losing and you are not, or not as fast, or not as much. it's a quirk of nature and totally unfair. i think it has something to do with the extra layer of fat women have in order to be able to create and nurture children. think pre-historic needs, and it's easier to accept. be annoyed with nature, not him, or yourself. just keep on keeping on at your own rate! you'll do great!