Well, maybe we learn who doesn't send a pic upon request and we honor folks who do show the respect and honor a simple request for a photo.
Of two mini quilts given to soldiers I do not know personally, I have pics of both. One let me take a photo upon delivery in person. I told him I would love a photo of him in uniform with the little quilt. Before he went back to active duty he had two photos taken with different views of him in uniform holding the quilt. He cried when I gave him the little quilt. Has a Bible verse of encouragement, is RWB & applique eagle.
Purchased a rv & learned the dealership's owner had a son in Afghanistan. I took a quilt to the Dad. Dad mailed the quilt to the son & within a couple of weeks I had an email of thanks with the soldier and his unit in uniform with the quilt.
100% I would say soldiers appreciate quilts. Even 24" x 24" autographable quilts sent with a pigma pen.