If you choose to make them a quilt you can do it for say their first anniversary. These kids are going to be pushing you to a limit to get this wedding done in 6 wks. I wish you lots of luck and may your sanity stay in tact.
I think some people don't know what goes into making a quilt. They don't get the cutting, peicing and all else it entails. Don't judge them to harshly.