UPDATE:::::
Well, he came, took the money and left everything. I went through it all quickly but didn't see anything missing.
In the future I will post on my ads in clear letters NO REFUNDS I'M NOT YOUR LOCAL BIG BOX STORE.
He's wasted a lot of my time and energy and I'm not going to allow someone to have that power over me again for a few bucks!
Anyhoo....it's over and I'm still alive and safe thanks for worrying about me:>