I threw away my alarm clock. I go to bed when I'm sleepy and sleep until I wake up on my own. I don't care about what time it is or even what day it is. Having schedules after retirement is too stressful to think about. I go to the gym or do my shopping many times passed midnight. I may wake up and decide to go on a mini trip. If DH wants to go great, if not, bye see you later. I don't not do what I want just because he doesn't want to. That's a waste of my life and I am slowly running out of driving and up and going time!