take a really deep breath. ok enjoy wedding first 6 wks isn't much time and that's the moment you don't want to miss out on. the quilt will be better if your not going crazy doing to much and end up sick for the wedding. then you can decide on a quilt and when it's done you decide when o ive it. enjoy one of the most wonderful days in your life and theirs. hope you enjoy the beautiful occasion like you should. sue