I'm not sure what's been happening, but if we inadvertently break a rule, or someone makes a complaint about something we've said, do we get told?
Of all the people who contacted me asking if their posts are OK, I don't think a single person actually did something really wrong. Maybe some minor stuff which is way too subjective to judge.
On the other hand, those who did push it too far (by pretty much any standards), never asked anything until their posts got deleted.
Go figure.