thanks Blue and K, for asking these questions...
I can talk, but can't always, 'hone in', on just what I want to know.
As for some asking if their stuff was ok, and some 'offenders', not asking at all...
I wouldn't say that the guilty were totally unaware...in the back of their minds...
but when you get nothing but positive feedback, and know nothing of any complaints, or negativity...you actually think your supporting each other and just having a good time, and no harm being done.
See what I mean? It doesn't occur to you, to go ask anybody anything, if it seems that all is going well.