Holy crap clsurz! You are an interesting woman, aren't you?!!! I suppose once in the head is all a man needs to understand exactly where he stands with you and your cast iron skillet!
Women, even in today's world, are abused. I've seen it where I work. It's sad. If more women were given cast iron skillets when they started a relationship or were married, and used them (in a multitude of ways), there'd be a clearer view of where people stand.