Originally Posted by MargeD

IMHO you are absolutely right, but sometimes we forget and give in. Years and years ago our 5 yo son nearly was expelled from Kingergarten (Honest), saw pediatrician, who recommended therapist, who also told DH during one therapy session that if he had to hire someone to do what I do, he'd be paying over $40,000/yearly in 70's $. At least he could no longer say our son's behavior was all my fault, but then that's his easy out. I want you all to know that if anything bad happens, it's my fault, I'm the responsible one. Just so you know. lol After 43 years - too late for divorce, we just have separate bedrooms, much better. Sorry, for my venting, but having a bad day with arthritis pain - makes me __itchy.