i have a little girl Zoey, she's fixed, very feminine, loves collars and jewerly. she has a rhinestone neclace, real pink pearl neclace and a pink suede collar with flowers and a tag. Sometimes, she wears scrunchies. when i tell her i made her a pretty,she sits still while i put it on her. she a big lap sitter, and loves to play. she's about 1 yr. 4 months, and also loves to box, and play belly rubs. she sleeps under the blankets with me and dh. i've had male and female, and you can't tell the diff, but Zoey is the first to act girly.