They may sense your afraid of them. Do you keep them on a schedule? Maybe two males and different breeds don't get alone. We raised parakeets yrs ago and we was thankful when we found a fellow bird person he told us a lot. We met him at a bird show. Maybe even if you put a note up at Wal Mart or wherever you shop maybe there is someone that breeds birds can help you. Try to relax a little that may also help you a little. Please take care of yourself and keep the birds in separate rooms and try to make friends with them separately. Blessings and prayers and hugs for you. Sue