Juli I hope that you and Shane are doing ok today. I know how hard it can be when having to deal with the lower life forms that are our ex's. I have to call mine today and discuss his lack of involvement with our children, especially Jon. I'm worried about him as he hasn't been getting out of the house lately. I talked to him about going to the library next week. But it would be great if his dad spent sometime with him. It's been months since he has even seen him. My son has always handled the accident that left him paralyzed extremely well. But it has to hurt that you dad has no time for you. I so don't want to call him. I don't talk to him unless I absolutely have to.