I told a friend of mine "If you make a mistake, you rip". In her case it was with crocheting. Every once in a while I would get a phone call and she would say "dame you Joan". Now when I make mistakes I say to myself "dame you Shirley". She was a very good friend and is now living with the Good Lord. I miss her but when I make my mistakes I am with her because she made me do the mistake. I would NEVER make a mistake on my own, now would I?