Honestly I would give the quilt. I do not see it as ugly. Soft pastel baby quilt it is not. What I see is a nice manly quilt the baby will not outgrow as he becomes a toddler. My grandson was carrying around his "B" so long I thought he would still be carrying a piece of it around until he gets married. You never know what a child is going to get attached to. I don't know about Bohemian but I think it's one the child will "grow into".