Froggy it seems as though this board is becoming detrimental to your well being, if that is the case maybe you should find other means of spending your time. I personally love this site, I have met great people with knowledge way beyond mine. If somebody is having a rough time, it's O.K. cause we have all been there and done that. Alot of times it is nice to have an ear to chew. Someone who can relate. Nobody can fix all the woes in the world, they have always been there, and they always will. I just hope when you hit a bump in the road, you'll have caring friends that will help steer you in the lines.