Too bad you are being put upon by friends. They need to see the vacum cleaner in the living room and a basket of clothes to be folded ,every time they come over. Then you just say well, IF I had the time......... that way no hard feelings. Works for me. Now to get to the problem.....Set aside 15 or 20 minutes a day to work on the "job" then get something started that you want to do. Good luck.