My DH supports my hobby and I am very strict with myself when it comes to giving myself quilt time. I do housework first, and take care of my kids, but I have decided to forego the evening TV time in lieu of sewing time. We trade off on weekends. I give him time to do his thing and take the kids out and in turn, he gives me time. We are pretty equal about it and the children always come first so there is no guilt. Well, that isn't true... The guilt is reversed for me. I feel guilty for not getting in ENOUGH sewing time! :)