The solution to her jumping would depend somewhat on WHY she is jumping at you. Is she doing it aggressively? or is she just thrilled to death to see you and is trying to get near your face to tell you so?
I totally agree with DogHouseMom. I have never had an alpha dog. My alphas have always been bitches-and I too am top alpha in my house! My boys and girls NEVER fight-the boys always say "So very sorry I looked in your direction" and turn away. You have a good boy!