This will be my last year to send Christmas Presents to my son's two boys. My son does not acknowledge them or send pictures. He changed when he married a girl who didn't want his family as part of the package. Seven years later I don't even get pictures of the two boys. Tried really hard to continue to have him and his family in our lives. But there comes a time when you know things will never change. Starting in 2012 I will just send a gift card for birthday and Christmas. No point in wasting more on postage when the gifts aren't acknowledged anyway.