My 19 year old grand daughter and her 31 year old husband were married 9-10-11.
This is the opening: Family are the people we love,with them your heart can laugh without shyness and your tears can dry ayt their own pace.
Then it went on to describe the presents one gave to them and the appreciation for their time taken out of their busy lives.
final:
We are so blessed to be able to share with you our Love and Happiness.
I would say your son and dil are just lazy and selfish,
The card was such a gift to people who received them. They are wrong.