I think 14 is a little young to be having to pay for your own shampoo/conditioner and clothing, to me that falls under a necessity. I can understand if you want somethinc crazy or expensive, but 14 is still a child. There is a reason children can't legally be a part of the work force. I totally support learning the value of a dollar, I babysat/house sat/pet sat at that age to make money here and there for things that I wanted, but I also got the chance to be a kid as well. Not to mention having time to focus on school and homework and such. I hope that this hardworking young lady gets the chance to enjoy being a teenage girl as well.