Sorry about your missing crums. I have had to chuckel on this whole thing, no it is not funny, but the thing that made it that way for me is: I have a very close friend my age that takes care of her mother (mother lives with daughter) the mother is always going through the daughters stuff, repacking to the way she wants it, even has thrown out things but when asked about it always says, I haven't seen it, I don't know. Then mother goes off to her room & pouts for who knows how long.... I feel for you.