I love the quilt! What a wonderful way to honor your DH & show your DD love!
I understand your DH's humor. I always tell my kids to 'be rotten.' They know that's my way of saying to 'be good!' As they each entered college I would then say 'never mind, I already know that you are rotten.' It just made 'em laugh.
(My DM still tells me to 'be good.' At age 25 it started irritating me!)