Goodness this question really had me stop and think!! I have had some really (interesting) life experiences and my choices at times were perhaps questionable (I know my parents thought so) but when it comes right down to it I am here today the product of my life experiences and I am GOOD! I have a great DH, it took more than one try to find him, we will never been money rich, but we are comfortable and loved and what more is there?