I don't know what I would change that wouldn't effect my life now. If I had said no to my daughter 7 years ago when she wanted to move away, I wouldn't have the beautiful granddaughter that I have now. If I had insisted that my son to stay in school and not get married at 17 I wouldn't have the 3 grandchildren he and his wife of 15 years have provided for me. Maybe the one do over I would do is turn to God more than I have in the past.