I'm not sure I would have done anything differently. I like where my life is now. Decent kids, good husband, nice home, lots of interests and many friends. Things could have been easier several times along the way but then I would not have been as strong. I don't think dwelling too much on "might have been's" is a good idea though. How does that saying go? "Yesterday is just a memory. Tomorrow is just a dream. All we have is today."