Originally Posted by wraez
SOOOO funny!
I have to admit the 'first wife' comment would grate on me too.
But I've said that I'm married to my 'first husband' for over 40 yrs now and it doesn't sound so bad when I say it. Maybe I should rethink it and drop it, tho he laffs.
It is different when we say it to or about a spouse. To have a MIL say it is just insulting and mean.
As for the crumb pitching, passive aggressive MIL - Her and her son would know in short order exactly who and what he married because the fit I would pitch would explain it very clearly.