I too had my children before Ultrasounds. My daughter was 5 1/2 and I was about to have my second child. I was just positive it was going to be a boy...the first boy in my family of all girl grandchildren...how excited I was. But just in case...I slipped a little pink in the Blue Log Cabin quilt I was making for my new baby...and picked out the name Caroline. In the end...John didn't mind the pink in his quilt at all :)