It's Sunday morning and I'm surely in a 'DUH' moment but please explain something to me. You used the phrase 'your BIL girlfriend'. What's mixing up my mind is if BIL stands for 'brother-in-law', then doesn't that mean he's your sister's husband. I'm thinking he shouldn't be having a girl friend if he's married to your sister, no less. Maybe I should go back to bed and get up again!!!!