I've asked my family and friends to all bring the quilts I've made and put them at the funeral home instead of flowers, it's my passion and what I love to do, if they want flowers let whatever kiddos are around pick those wonderful weed kind or dandelions, those are what my babies and grands brought for me to put in a jar and I loved them. So just a jar of "wildflowers" and surrounded by the quilts I loved to create is all I need.