There is no way of knowing. To me netural is blend of
light tan, off white, white, or earthy tans.
But to mil is it no decoration white & plain.
To her only white walls,no pictures on wall or things
sitting anywere. Everything in place. We get along
fine just have different taste.
One more thought: it a gift of love, and they know it.
My Mil will put wharever I get her out like the lap quilt I
made her on her bed at nursing home maybe 3 days. Then can't handle it longer and puts it away, or gives it away,for her that is all she can handle, but tries to have it out, it was a nice lite bird print she had wanted inner self I guess, out the outside self could not hande it.
Can you wait and meet them and tell them your plans & get
their true likes. there is busy pattern & plain