What is neutral to the pastor's mom, may not be neutral to you or the pastor and his wife. I would just ask the recipients what they would like. The quilt wouldn't be a surprise to them, but at least you would know you had given them exactly what they wanted.[/quote]
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So true.. if the person is NOT a quilter who made this statement she may mean something completely different then a true neutral color pallet. When in doubt.. ASK... lol[/quote]
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This subject has come up before, and I would suggest the same thing I did a long time ago.
TALK TO THE BRIDE AND ASK HER!!!
We only have other opinions on this, with some lovely suggestions, but the bride might have in her mind a future bedroom decorated in a totally different way that does not include the one they will be using at this point in time.