Originally Posted by bearisgray
Originally Posted by pstrwife
I would want a true friend to be honest when I ask. But unsolistited honesty if really needed. Too confusing??? sorry
Not really.
Examples:
If someone wants to wear unbecoming clothing - oh,well.
If someone is starting to date someone that has some serious "issues" such as being a drug dealer or abuser- that information should be passed on. (Whether the person will listen is debatable, but at least he/she will have been warned.)
great examples... everyone who knows me knows not to ask my opinion unless they really want it. same thing at work.. there my policy is don't ask unless you really want the answer...
a lot of times my answer is "do you really want me to answer that?" sometimes thats answer enough.