How RUDE! ARROGANT! AGGRESSIVE!
To come to someone's home and ATTACK for 20 minutes....
She must be a very unhappy person with low self esteem to have to intentionally do this to someone. You know this has to be a "trait" she uses on many people; I think of her children | husband.
With your expertise and experiences, you were able to "let this attack" go out the door with her; whereas, many "learning quilters" might have decided not to quilt any more and would hear these HARSH WORDS over and over in their head and heart for years.
I wonder what happened to her to make her this way. Very sad.
Thanks for sharing your response. Good advice for dealing with these quilt police.