Betty I feel for you going thru all that. It is the worse feeling to go thru. Years ago my husband's job as a plant manager he was gone all the time and we lived 5 miles from town. He had an employee that he didn't show up on time for work so he had to fire him. That night he showed up at our house and I was alone and he went banging on windows and I locked the doors. He broke the door window and tried to get in. He was yelling and threatening me to do some nasty things to me. He went banging on the house and when he came around to the front of the house I shot my husbands hunting gun thru the bay window to scare him away. I finely got the guts to go into the living room and grabbed the phone and called the police. Sad thing about this is I lost my first child over all the fear I went thru.