No to the same experience...but I think your quilts are just beautiful. And like the group said, their comments aren't designed to tear your heart out (though they can..), make you feel insecure (again, though they can...)or just generally hurt your feelings. They're designed to HELP us all learn...I guess in a sense, the judges ARE the "quilt police". I'd like to encourage you to take the criticism in a constructive manner...
anything more you do to your quilts can only make them more spectacular than they already are!