I just lost my Dad last month. He was 86. His last days were like this but he was not crabby. He let us feed him a bite or two and clean him up when he was wet but I know in his mind he didn't want to depend on us for these things. His last understandable words were "Come on Lord" and " I love you Jesus". I miss him a lot and my Mom (his wife of 66 years) will miss him forever. I know he is happy now and to me that makes me feel better.