Thank you all for your condolenses. It's not been easy, but we're taking it one day at a time, sometimes one minute.
I honestly feel very offended. I thought she was honestly calling to check on the kids and me.
I will be reporting her and sharing this info with the realtor. I will also be going to my bank to make sure no one comes in and makes a withdrawl.
With her doing the closing papers on the house here, they have alot of personal info on them, SS#, bank account #, I want to make sure that no one acts like they're me.
Thank you again for your insight into what things I should do. I didn't even think about reporting her to the mortgage board.