Well, I'm in agreement with gcathie because in my mind a gift belongs to the recipient to do what they will with it. However, I would NEVER give them another quilt.
My grandmother made some beautiful quilts and when my mother decided to split them between my brother and me, she gave each of us one quilt and then watched. Mine went on our guestroom bed so that it rarely got used, but was beautiful to look at. My brother's was found on the floor in their garage!
Guess who got the rest of the quilts.