Originally Posted by
TnBecky
It must be so nice to have everything in your life go so perfectly that you never complain. Or is it just a fact that people will people just take whatever they are given and say that's okay. I don't think the world works that way & I truely hope that people will stand up when they think something is not right or could be better. It's a shame that you don't take people's complaint's as seriously as you do all the compliments.
My biggest complaint, like others, is the background color. I do sincerely hope that can be worked out.
If we don't listen to all things/people then we get what they want us to have & nothing any better. Sorry I am not a complainer or a whinner, but if I disagree it is because I truely believe in what I say. Your right this is a great place. So many people go out of their way to help and I for one greatly appreciate that. So I guess that I will step down off my soap box now & go back to learning.
I have to say that I understand what TNBecky is saying. Maybe we should use the word, 'disagreeing' instead of 'complaining' and it would be better. We have the right to 'disagree' if it's done in a tactful way. How else are we going to know a person's true feelings. And we should have that right on here to 'disagree' or not like something; and to speak up about it. I like the kind of person that I fell is telling me what they REALLY think and feel; and not what they think I want to hear or what is going to make them friends. Therefore, I disagree with those who are 'complaining' (or disagreeing) with the ones who have given negative feedback to the changes. We all have that right IF we aren't being vicious; and spiteful. Today's give and take as been healthy and good. Nothing wrong with disagreeing AND speaking up about it. Just do it in a thoughtful and truthful way. I enjoyed the simplicity of the former forum and being able to easily look at that list and see what I wanted to read more about before going on with my busy day. BUT I will get used to this one also; and then decide if it's what I want or go on. And I really can't imagine 'going on'. But let's agree to disagree; be willing to accept the differences; do it all in a tackful, honest tone; and go on!