I had a Disappearing 9 Patch that had set for a couple of years because we had developed a strong hatred for each other. Since I had a retreat coming up I decided to take it and finish it once and for all. When I took it out at the retreat one of the other quilters said, "Oh, how pretty! I just LOVE that." I promptly answered her and said, "I don't so since you do it's now yours. Enjoy!" Then I crossed it off my 'to do' list and considered it finished.