To be perfectly honest my life is usually like this so I'm kind of used to working at crisis mode. If I get to overwhelmed I take a Valium but 10 of them last me about a year so you can see I don't use them much. It's kind of like my way of doing charity work but it's usually for my dear friends. I'm the one everyone knows they can call if they need help. I don't work outside the home so I'm always here for people. I do take time for myself and I have the greatest supportive husband I have been married to for 30 yrs. When it's to much for me he picks up the slack. Today we played tag team at the hospital. He came so I could go home for a little while then I went back then he came back then I left so one of us was there all day.