oh Sweetie, I am so sorry! I don't understand why some people are like that. My mother was like that, she would make sure that no one ever got close to anyone but her. I grew up thinking that my brothers didn't like me only to find out after she passed how many lies she told her entire life. Hugs for you, I hope you can find peace with this. You are right to keep sending the cards and cards because some day the truth will come out...it always does.