Are you freaking out getting ready for the holidays?
How much of what you are doing - or planning to do - is really necessary?
Can you afford whatever?
"Afford" in ways in addition to money/financially - time - energy - desire -
Is the pay-off worth the time, effort, and money?
Sometimes one has to pick and choose what to do - and what to let go.
Circumstances change. This might be the year to change "what you've always done" to "what you want to do"
Just something to think about.