That's just wrong.It's so rude too.No your not being selfish to want to know the person recieved their gift.This months swap was complicated by the new format of the site.Some people even left the site altogether.So many were upset not being able to send or recieve e-mails and it took so long for some of us to figure out how to find the swap again.I hope it isn't so bad this coming month.I really feel for those who don't hear anything.Please everyone PM Lori if you can't hold to the rules.She will make sure your pal isn't left hanging,but you need to let her know. Mary