I stap stich so I need a hoop. And I need to put the quilt a little tighter than you do when you rock the needle. My problem is all my Hoops of wood that were given to me break. I even had a heavy plastic one break that should not ( Had it for 8 years ). Now all I have is my large wood hoops that are to big to work with on my lap. Has this happen to anyone else? What kind of hoop would you use?