I think you should help your daughter and enjoy the time you spend with her on it. Don't do it for her. But, guide her along the way. It takes a big person to be able to do something like this and I know you've got to be that person or your daughter wouldn't ask you to do it. Enjoy the time you spend with your daughter and if you get to feeling "catty" about it, just remember they "have to use it" and she can't get rid of it. heheheheh!